After I got myself set up with a counselor, I brought my wife home and I tried to talk to her and she just wasn’t having it and she started up with all the normal insults again. So I left so I wouldn’t have to deal with her. I was kind of upset because the next day was our anniversary.
I calle dher up and told her that I wanted to spend time with her. She told me not to come home because she has a man coming over later that she met on craigslist. I was pissed. I told her that I wanted her to call it off because I just wanted to be around her. She tells me that she has had this planned for a number of days now. So what that means is that she was spending her time trying to meet other men while I was in the hospital and facility that she had me involuntarily admitted to. I begged her to call it off and she continued to refuse. She told me that if I come home then she was going out to a bar with this guy instead.
What the fuck. It’s our anniversary the next fucking day. How fucking dare she go and plan to hook up with another man, especially when she is claiming that I am sick. She is supposed to stick by my side. After calling a few more times, because she keeps hanging up on me, she finally said that she was calling it off, and she was bullshit with me over it.
So I get home and she is out smoking a butt and I hear her phone got a new text message. So I go and look at her phone and it the guy responded asking her when I was going to be home. I called the guy and told him that it is not going to happen and to forget the phone number.
I just can’t believe she is doing this to me. She already slept with another man multiple times that she met on craigslist and I had told her it must stop and she said she would respect what I say.
So her and I start fighting and she is acting horrible to me. I decide that I should call her parents and let them know whats going on and see if there is anything they can do to help because not only is my wife cheating on me but she is also getting drunk nearly every day and smoking pot. I talked with her mother, and her mother just did not want to hear about it or no anything about whats going on. My wifes father is a pastor, and her mom is a church lady. WTF! These people would rather just stick their heads in the sand and not hear a cry for help when it comes down to the outrageous and destructive that her daughter is doing. But just a little over a year ago they learn that their some is gay and they are all into not talking to him anymore and gossiping with the other church members and making a huge deal about it.
Really, my wife is drinking herself to the grave, destroying her family and her parents don’t give a damn. What wonderful christians. All respect is lost for them at this point.
The only thing that her mom would tell me is that I need to get a job and get on meds. What the fuck are meds going to do for me when it is my wife that is making all these problems? What? Is it supposed make me not fucking care that she is doing this shit to me? Me taking meds will not change her behavior. Stupid blind church people.
Needless to say, when I told my wife that her mom wants to talk to her, my wife got even more pissed at me. “Why the fuck did you involve my parents? It’s none of their business”. Ok, now it’s not their business when it is her doing something wrong, but every time I do something wrong then it is their business for her to call them up.
Fucking mind numbing.